Youth Work is Care

 When you think about caring for someone, it's often superficial. Most people automatically think of the basic human needs like shelter and food or giving someone affection. Caring for someone is so much more than that. It's validating them as a person. It's making them feel heard. It's recognizing that people have different privileges based on a number of different things. The readings really shed a light on that. While educators or youth workers might not explicitly be discriminatory towards their students, we're all human and we have implicit biases. Some educators might not recognize that some students don't have access to internet at home so they can't do the online homework. Or that they're student isn't failing tests because they don't know the information, they might get anxious about taking tests. Caring goes so much deeper than we think and we all want someone to care for us. We have to start by caring about others. 

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  1. Victoria RestlerOctober 20, 2020 at 7:58 AM

    Thanks for your post Meaghan. I appreciate your call to go deeper in the ways we typically think about care. What does that look like for you in youth spaces specifically?

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